Uni Coll's Life~Intermediate English

What the hell...

The English reading comprehension part is really difficult...

After exam,everyone was talking about this...

I really no idea about it...

Lucky the cloze passage and grammar is quite easy...

The essay is the diffrentiate between airplanes and trains...

Before exam,I thought I can do well on it...

But the reading comprehesion really kill us...haha...

Anyway I still have three more papers to go...

I should concentrate on it...

Put my last effort....

God bless me well...

And bless everyone who is taking exam now too...

For Cynthia

Wooh...

Cynthia is the winner of The Most Natural Face Search 2008...

Really congratulations to her...

Proud of her...Well done^^

Cynthia wins a Mini Cooper...My dream car...haha
Although is a old version Mini Cooper...
But still look damn nice...
Envy and desire to have it...

And the most important is no waste my effort to vote for her...

Anyway really happy to hear this good news...

Thanks Elin to tell me the latest news...

I feel sad I can't attend the final show...

I can't share the happy moment with them too...

She has a nice costume...

This banner is decorate by my brother,Nelson...

Jerry 的故事

Jerry是美國一家餐廳的經理，
他總是有好心情，當別人問他最近過得如何，
他總是有好消息可以說，
他總是回答『如果我再過得好一些，我就比雙胞胎還幸運囉！』
當他換工作的時候，
許多服務生都跟著他從這家餐廳換到另一家，
為什麼呢？
因為Jerry是個天生的激勵者，
如果有某位員工今天運氣不好，
Jerry總是適時地告訴那位員工往好的方面想。
看到這樣的情境真的讓我很好奇，
所以有一天我到Jerry那兒問他：
『我不懂沒有人能夠老是那樣地積極樂觀，你是怎麼辦到的？』
Jerry回答：
『每天早上我起來告訴自己，
我今天有兩種選擇，我可以選擇好心情，或者我可以選擇壞心情，
我總是選擇有好心情，
即使有不好的事發生，我可以選擇做個受害者，或是選擇從中學習，
我總是選擇從中學習。
每當有人跑來跟我抱怨，
我可以選擇接受抱怨或者指出生命的光明面，態度。我從他身上學到:
每天你都能選擇享受你的生命，或是憎恨它。
這是唯一一件真正屬於你的權利
我總是選擇生命的光明面。』
『但並不是每件事都那麼容易啊！』我抗議地說
Jerry說：『的確如此，
生命就是一連串的選擇，每個狀況都是一個選擇，
你選擇如何回應，你選擇人們如何影響你的心情，
你選擇處於好心情或是壞心情。你選擇如何過你的生活。』
數年後，我聽到Jerry意外地做了一件你絕想不到的事：
有一天他忘記關上餐廳的後門，
結果早上三個武裝歹徒闖入搶劫，
他們要脅Jerry打開保險箱，
由於過度緊張，
Jerry弄錯了一個號碼，
造成搶匪的驚慌，
開槍射擊Jerry，
幸運地，Jerry很快地被鄰居發現，
緊急送到醫院搶救，
經過18小時的外科 手術，以及密集照顧，
Jerry終於出院了，還有塊子彈留在他身上?
事件發生6個月之後我遇到Jerry，
我問他最近怎麼樣，
他回答：『如果我再過得好一些，我就比雙胞胎還幸運了。要看看我的傷痕嗎？』
我婉拒了，
但我問他當搶匪闖入的時候，他的心路歷程。
Jerry答道：
『我第一件想到的事情是我應該鎖後門的，
當他們擊中我之後，我躺在地板上，
還記得我有2個選擇：
我可以選擇生，或選擇死。
我選擇活下去。』
『你不害怕嗎？』我問他：
Jerry繼續說：
『醫護人員真了不起，他們一直告訴我沒事，放心。
但是當他們將我推入緊急手術間的路上，
我看到醫生跟護士臉上憂慮的神情，
我真的被嚇到了，
他們的眼好像寫著－他已經是個死人了，
我知道我需要採取行動。』
『當時你做了什麼？』我問：
Jerry說：
『嗯！當時有個碩大的護士用吼叫的音量問我一個問題，
她問我是否會對什麼東西過敏。
我回答：『有』。
這時醫生跟護士都停下來等待我的回答。
我深深地吸了一口氣喊著：『子彈！』
聽他們笑完之後，
我告訴他們：『我現在選擇活下去，
請把我當作一個活生生的人來開刀，不是一個活死人。』
Jerry能活下去當然要歸功於醫生的精湛醫術，
但同時也由於他令人驚異的
沒有人能夠控制或奪去的東西～就是你的態度。
如果你能時時注意這件事實，
你生命中的其他事情都會變得容易許多。

爱有多少，

付出也要有多少爱情不是单行道

他(她)的好更不是理所当然生气时，

想想他(她)的可爱抱怨时，

想想他(她)的委屈冷战时，

想想他(她)的温柔

两人懂得付出，爱就会久远....

毕竟，真心相爱并不容易，不要轻言别离

[送心爱的人回家；哪里都顺路!]

这是我无意之中发现的！

虽然只是短短的几行，

但意义不同非凡。

我还蛮喜欢它的其中意义！

这些都是情侣之间常常发生的事，

但有多少情侣能真真地想想对方的付出？

或许我们会！但这并不代表我们会去做！

有些人只会埋怨对方，不会好好地站在对方设想！

希望我身边的朋友们都能得到幸福！！！

Presentation

I'm already finish my all presentation...

Hooray...Hooray....

But I now need to prepare for my final examination...

I'll try my all best on my final exam...

Hope everything will go smooth....

Johor Bahru

Hooray....Hooray...

After my final exam, I'll go to J.B.

I already one year don't go there...

Miss my all relatives and the food much...

Now I'm thinking to pack my luggage...

Muahahaha...

J.B. I'm coming soon...

爱的感觉

爱的感觉，
总是在一开始觉得很甜蜜，
总觉得多一个人陪、多一个人帮你分担，
你终於不再孤单了，至少有一个人想著你、恋著你，
不论做什么事情， 只要能一起，就是好的，
但是慢慢的，随著彼此的认识愈深，
你开始发现了对方的缺点， 於是问题一个接著一个发生，
你开始烦、累，甚至想要逃避，
有人说爱情就像在捡石头， 总想捡到一个适合自己的，
但是你又如何知道什么时候能够捡到呢？

*她适合你，那你又适合她吗?
其实，爱情就像磨石子一样，
或许刚捡到的时候，你不是那么的满意，
但是记住人是有弹性的， 很多事情是可以改变的，
只要你有心、有勇气， 与其到处去捡未知的石头，
还不如好好的将自己已经拥有的石头磨亮磨，你开始磨了吗？
很多人以为是因为感情淡了， 所以人才会变得懒惰。
错！ 其实是人先被惰性征服， 所以感情才会变淡的。

*在某个聚餐的场合, 有人提议多吃点虾子对身体好， 这时候有个中年男人忽然说「十年前，当我老婆还是我的女朋友的时候，她说要吃十只虾，我就剥二十只给她！ 现在，如果她要我帮她剥虾壳，开玩笑！我连帮她脱衣服都没兴趣了，还剥虾壳咧！
*听到了吗？明白了吗？

难怪越来越多人只想要谈一辈子的恋爱，却迟迟不肯走入婚姻。
因为，婚姻容易让人变得懒惰。
如果每个人都 懒得讲话、 懒得倾听、 懒得制造惊喜、 懒得温柔体贴，
那么夫妻或是情人之间， 又怎么会不渐行渐远渐无声呢？
所以请记住： 有活力的爱情， 是需要适度殷勤灌溉的，
谈恋爱，更是不可以偷懒的喔！


*有一对情侣，相约下班後去用餐、逛街，可是女孩因为公司会议而延误了， 当她冒著雨赶到的时候已经迟到了30多分钟， 他的男朋友很不高兴的说： 你每次都这样，现在我甚么心情也没了， 我以後再也不会等你了！ 刹那间，女孩终於决堤崩溃了， 她心里在想：或许，他们再也没有未来了 *同样的在同一个地点，另一对情侣也面临同样的处境； 女孩赶到的时候也迟到了半个钟头，他的男朋友说：我想你一定忙坏了吧！ 接著他为女孩拭去脸上的雨水，并且脱去外套盖在女孩身上， 此刻，女孩流泪了, 但是流过她脸颊的泪却是温馨的。 你体会到了吗？*


其实爱、恨往往只是在我们的一念之间！
爱不仅要懂得宽容更要及时，

很多事可能只是在於你心境的转变罢了！ 懂了吗？
当有个人爱上你，而你也觉得他不错。
那并不代表你会选择他。

*我们总说：我要找一个你很爱很爱的人，才会谈恋爱。
但是当对方问你，怎样才算是很爱很爱的时候，
你可能无法回答他，因为你自己也不知道。
*没错，我们总是以为，我们会找到一个自己很爱很爱的人。
可是後来，当我们猛然回首，
我们才会发觉自己曾经多么天真。
假如从来没有开始，你怎么知道自己会不会很爱很爱那个人呢？

其实，很爱很爱的感觉，
是要在一起经历了许多事情之後才会发现的。
或许每个人都希望能够找到自己心目中百分之百的伴侣，
但是你有没有想过在你身边会不会早已经有人默默对你付出很久了，
只是你没发 觉而已呢？
所以，还是仔细看看身边的人吧！
他或许已经等你很久喽！

*当你爱一个人的时候，爱到八分绝对刚刚好。
所有的期待和希望都只有七八分；剩下两三分用来爱自己。
如果你还继续爱得更多，很可能会给对方沉重的压力，
让彼此喘不过气来， 完全丧失了爱情的乐趣。

*所以请记住，

喝酒不要超过六分醉，

吃饭不要超过七分饱，

爱一个人不要超过八分

*那天朋友问我：到底该怎么做才算是爱一个人呢？
我笑著跟他说：其实每个人的爱情观都不一样，
说对了叫开导，但就怕说错反倒变成误导。那就糟糕了！


*如果你也正在为爱迷惘，或许下面这段话可以给你一些启示：

爱一个人，要了解，也要开解；

要道歉，也要道谢；

要认错，也要改错；

要体贴，也要体谅；

是接受，而不是忍受；

是宽容，而不是纵容；

是支持，而不是支配；

是慰问，而不是质问；

是倾诉，而不是控诉；

是难忘，而不是遗忘；

是彼此交流，而不是凡事交代；

是为对方默默祈求， 而不是向对方诸多要求；

可以浪漫，但不要浪费；

可以随时牵手，但不要随便分手。

The Memory Keeper's Daughter

The Memory Keeper's Daughter by Kim Edwards

Families have secrets they hide even from themselves...



It should have been an ordinary birth, the start of an ordinary happy family. But the night Dr. David Henry delivers his wife's twins is a night that will haunt five lives for ever.



For though David's son is a healthy boy, Paul and his daughter, Phoebe has Down's syndrome. And, in a shocking act of betrayal whose consequences only time will reveal, he tells his wife, Norah Henry their daughter died while secrestly entrusting her care to a nurse, Caroline Grill.



As grief quietly tears apart David's family, so a little girl must make her own ay in the world as best she can.

http://www.memorykeepersdaughter.com/

Sandisk Cruzer Titanium Plus

Since I lost my thumb drive yesterday...

So I do some research about USB flash drive...

I want to buy a 4GB flash drive....

Aftern finish the research,I think Sandisk Cruzer is what I want...

I dediced to buy it...

If online buying then te price is $29.99 and shipping s $7...

http://www.sandisk.com/Products/Catalog(1391)-SanDiskUltra_Cruzer_Titanium_Plus_USB_Flash_Drive.aspx

But I don't think I'll buy from online shopping...

Cause I can't wait it to deliver...

I will go to shop and get it...

Thumb Drive

My CARELESS make me lost my thumb drive...

Even is my first time lost it but still feel sorry to everybody...

Sorry to my parent cause they need to buy another one to me...

Sorry to my coursemate cause the all assignments are gone...

Sorry to my presentation partner that I lost our presentation...

Sorry to myelf too cause I'm lost my all effort...

Sorry to my thumb drive cause I'm not a good owner...

Sorry! Sorry! Sorry and Sorry!!!

One of my friend said that recently I'm very bad luck...

I also and strongly believe that...

Hope my bad luck will gone together with my thumb drive...

And don't want let me know who is taken my thumb drive away...

'You' cause me need to redo anything...Hate it...

But obviously it is my fault too...

If I'm got plug out my thumb drive :

If I'm not rush to have a lunch with friend:

If I'm help my friend to search information:

Then I wouldn't lost my thumb drive...

I'm not a God and I can't expect anything...

Now I just can console myself that is time to buy a new one...

Maybe is another good news too...

Piano

If I show this on my oral presentation I will get more marks...

But I don't show it...sad and sad...

Lecturer said my presentation is very boring and everybody feel asleep...

Maybe is my fault... But now already pass... Nothing can do...

Now I'm concentrate on my next presentation...

lots of work need to do... and final exam is coming soon...

Good luck and God bless me...

"Awaken the Giant"

Anthony Robbins

Publication : 1993

Category : Psychology

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http://www.amazon.com/Awaken-Giant-Within-Immediate-Emotional/dp/0671791540/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1226983128&sr=1-1

Six Steps To Emotional Mastery

Introduction:

Adapted form the book called Awaken the Giant within by Anthony Robbins

Why These Six Steps?

a. Able to take very quick control of your emotions.

b. Find the benefit of that emotion.

c. Set somebody up so that in the future he/she can get the lesson from the emotion.

d. Eliminate the effect or pain of emotions more quickly

Step 1: Identify what you're really feeling

~Take a moment to identify what you're really feeling

~Begin to question your emotions
~Use transformational vocabulary
~Able to lower the emotional intensity

Step 2: Acknowledge and appreciate your emotions, knowing they support you

- Trust your emotions; even you do not understand them at the moment.

- Because each emotions you are experiencing is there to support you in making a positive change

• You will immediately stop the war with yourself


• You will have toward simple solutions


• Your emotions will calm down immediately

Step 3: get curious about the message this emotion

* Getting curious helps you : -

• Master your emotion
• Solve the challenge
• Prevent the same problem occuring in future
  

*Four questions to feel the emotion, get curious about what it really has to offer you

i. What do I really want to feel

ii. What would I have to do to believe in order to feel the way I've been feeling?

iii. What am I willing to do to create a solution and handle this right now?

iv. What can I learn from this?

Step 4 : Get confident

= Get confident that you can handle this emotion immediately

= Remember a time when you felt a similar emotion

= Realize that you've successful handled this emotion before

= Thus, you already have a strategy of how to change your emotional states

= Then, do the same again with confidence that it will work just as it did before

Step 5: Get certain you can handle this not only today but in the future as well

~~How do you apply Step 5?

Firstly, remember tha ways you have handled in the past

Secondly, rehearse handling siutaions where this emotion would come up in the future

Thridly, see, hear and feel yourself handling the situations easily

Lastly, a neutral pathway of certainly that you can easily deal with such challenges.

Step 6 : Get excited and take action

- Get excited that you able to handle this emotion easily

- Take some action right away to prove that you've slove it

- Express yourseld by using what you rehearsed internally

- This will change the way you feel today and the way how you deal with this emotion in future

天使离开了人间！

今天才刚刚上网就收到了网友的信息！
他告诉了我一个震撼的消息！
他说黎础宁她自杀了！
第一感觉就是她的好傻好傻！
看到时还有点不信！
就到了各个网站去看才相信这个事实！
同时也发现黄靖伦在今天发新唱片!
有些歌迷说他既然在今天发片！
好像是在利用础宁！

现在心中有太多太多复杂的感觉！
只是好心疼础宁的傻！
现在也只能祝福她！
这天绝路是她自己选择的！
希望她到了天堂后快快乐乐的！
永远怀念你的歌声！

除了础宁的自杀消息外，当天也是玮伦的生日！
刚刚到了玮伦的网站留言！
也有好多伦迷在那留言！
已经两年了可大家也还忘了他！
丞琳也在部落格上说要忘吗？不如就痛吧！
丞琳昨晚和依晨及元畅到了玮伦家和玮伦家人渡过玮伦的生日！
他们的友情真的好令人敬佩！
两年了他们也没忘玮伦的生日及点点滴滴！

现在也只能祝福玮伦及础宁幸福快乐！
也希望大家不要选择了一条绝路！
那只会让身边的人伤心难过！
好好爱惜身边的家人和朋友！
祝福大家！

Water~^ ^

Yesterday about 10.30pm my aunty (owner) was told me that we now facing a big problem...

I just looked at her and continued listen...

She said that our house was no water after 9pm...

And just have the water after 5am...

I asked why like this?she just shaked her head...

But I think is not a big problem for me...

Just a problem is when midnight you want go to washroom,there no water for you...

So before 9pm we need to keep water...Just a little bit trouble...

Hope change to normal as soon as possible...

Uni Coll's Life~10th Nov 2008

Today already is Week 12...

Still have another two weeks then is my final exam...

Today lecturer tells that we can start to study all the time now...

He hope wont see us at the next sem...

Today his lecture is very fun...

I think because of the topic...

Is talking about computer history and industry...

But we have our quiz 2 on Thursday...

It will cover out four chapter...

Tomorrow I need to pass up my Finite Math assignment...

Thursday is my study skills assignment due date...

Week 12 is a busy with assignment and quiz...Lots of work...

I need to do this things for many years...

Study life...Study life...

Uni Coll's Life~80% Attendance

Just now my mummy is calling to me...

She said that my daddy today receive a letter which is from my college...

The letter is written I already skip my class many times...

And I can't skip for more than 20% attendance...

Now if I skip one more class I can't have my final exam...

But just for this subject not all subject...

I don't go for class just most of the reason is oversleep...haha...

I think Week 2 till Week 4 I just skip my class...

After that I don't absent from my class...

From now I need to go all class even have parent letter or MC...

Hope every college or university student care about the attendance...

Good luck to u all...

God Bless You..

黑白老鼠

有一個人在森林中漫遊的時候，
突然遇見了一隻飢餓的老虎，
老虎大吼一聲就撲了上來。
他立刻用生平最大的力氣和最快的速度逃開，
但是老虎緊追不捨， 他一直跑一直跑一直跑，
最後被老虎逼入了斷崖邊上。 站在懸崖邊上，他想：
「與其被老虎捉到，活活被咬、肢解，
還不如跳入懸崖，說不定還有一線生機。」

他縱身跳入懸崖， 非常幸運的卡在一棵樹上，
那是長在斷崖邊的梅樹， 樹上結滿了梅子。

正在慶幸的時候， 他聽到斷崖深處傳來巨大的吼聲，
往崖底望去，原來有一只兇猛的獅子正抬頭看著他，
獅子的聲音使他心顫， 但轉念一想：

「獅子與老虎是相同的猛獸，被甚麼吃掉，都是一樣的。」

當他一放下心， 又聽見了一陣聲音，
仔細一看，一黑一白的兩隻老鼠，
正用力地咬著梅樹的樹幹。 他先是一陣驚慌，
立刻又放心了，
他想：「被老鼠咬斷樹幹跌死，總比被獅子咬好。」

情緒平復下來後， 他感到肚子有點餓，
看到梅子長得正好， 就採了一些吃起來。
他覺得一輩子從沒吃過那麼好吃的梅子，
找到一個三角形樹丫休息， 他想著：
「既然遲早都要死，不如在死前好好睡上一覺吧！」

他在樹上沉沉的睡去了。 睡醒之後，
他發現黑白老鼠不見了， 老虎、獅子也不見了。
他順著樹枝， 小心翼翼的攀上懸崖， 終於脫離險境。

原來就在他睡著的時候， 飢餓的老虎按捺不住，
終於大吼一聲， 跳下懸崖。 黑白老鼠聽到老虎的吼聲，
驚慌逃走了。
跳下懸崖的老虎與崖下的獅子展開激烈的打鬥，
雙雙負傷逃走了。

由我們誕生那一刻開始，
苦難．就像飢餓的老虎一直追趕著我們，
死亡，就像一頭兇猛的獅子， 一直在懸崖的盡頭等待，
白天和黑夜的交替，就像黑白老鼠，
不停地正用力咬著我們暫時棲身的生活之樹，
總有一天我們會落入獅子的口中 。

既然知道了生命中最壞的情景是死亡，唯一的路，
就是安然地享受樹上甜美的果子， 然後安心地睡覺，
只有存著這樣單純的心、少慾望、多一點赤子之心。

最近常常聽到朋友的親友去世的消息，
除了安慰了幾句外好像什麼都不能做了
恐怕有一天自己亦會成為別人口中的壞消息
所以你們有沒有好好的享受你在世上的每一分每一秒?

如果剛才你和另一半或是和家人為了芝麻綠豆的事鬧翻了，現在頭頂還在生煙的話，請你看看那晴朗的天空和那飄渺的白雲，其實你又錯過了美好的一天呀 !

有些朋友雖然不常聯絡，卻偶爾寄個E-mail、也許是一些笑話、溫馨小品，或是小遊戲給你，這表示他一直在關心著你，他將你放在心裡，也珍惜彼此的友誼。

Wonderful Night^^

Tonight I have a good chat with my dude,Robert...

Actually Robert is not her real name...

I'm just get used to call her Robert...

Because when she dance is just like a Robert...muahaha...

We have a chat about two hours...

Now I'll help her to change Friendster layout...

She doesn't know how to do it...

Anyway is time to me to change it...

Good Night and sweet dream...

Uni Coll's Life~English Quiz 2

Yippie...Finish my English Quiz 2...

Relax,relax and relax...

Actually just write an essay...

The title is the process to recycle aluminium cans...

Easy right???hehe

We need to write 350-400 words...

Hope will get high mark...

Uni Coll's Life~3rd November 2008

Today can say that is whole day with Davka...

We chat and discuss many topics...

We talk about study,future,career,hair,shoe,bag......

Basically, is not a first time but today is break our record...

We have class at 8-10am till have breakfast with Tsog...

Tsog is a Mongolian guy...A special name but difficult to pronouce...

While Davka and Tsog is talked they use Mongolian...

Then they will use English to speak to me again...

Feel like very funny...

After that,I back to my home to take my note...

Davka will be wait for me at Pizza Hut...

We sit and talk at Pizza Hut till 1pm then we move to Secret Recipe...

That time Secret Recipe is crowded because of the lunch time...

I just order Grilled BBQ Chicken which is nice but too sweet...

Davka has Irish Lamb Stew with a bun,taste nice too...

We at there till 3.15pm then we go to WN Stationery to collect note...

Then we have class at 3.30pm...

Our English class today is quite funny...

Because nobody is listened to the Miss Sharmila,our lecturer...

She keep ask us "Is anybody with me?"Haha...

Surprisingly I finish my class at 4.45pm early 15 minutes...

Then I just straight walk back with a raining evening...

Next I will have a rest till 7pm...

When 5.45pm I recieve Mages message...

She told me that the showtime has taken place well...

And will tell me more detail tomorrow...

I will post it when I get the information...Haha...

( To Be Continued )

Careless

SO CARELESS AM I

I just now want delete other folder but

I delete Bond folder...

I need to download their music again...

Oh My God...

I already have all the music...

Now need to download again...

Waste my time...

And the connection damn slow...

Need much time to download it...

Bad luck...

Connection

Recently the connection is damn not stable...

Always fail to connect...

Make me more boring and nothing to do at here...

Is not me don't want update my blog...

Is the connection make me can't update...

Sad Sad and Sad...

Every time during weekend the connection will become more terrible...

It will totally can't connect...Disappointed

It suck being try to connect...

Hope next time wont like that again...

A Boring Sunday

A boring Sunday???

Definitely is damn damn boring...

Nothing to do today...

Just at my room do the same thing...

Online chatting and do my Computing notes...

Like usual nothing special...

Wanna hang out with friends also feel lazy...

And want to save money...

If not parent will require why spend so much...Haha...

No choice...

They don't know actually their daughter already very save...

No hang out,no shopping...

Just study and online chatting...

Yup I know they also need to pay for online...

Yesterday my friends want hang out...

She say she will come to fetch me then take another friend...

But she don't come...Maybe she busy with work...

No transport at here make me can't do anything...

If now at my hometown I already at outside with friends...

It is impossible to stay at home for whole day...

Sudden feel miss my hometown and friends...

Some friends already few months don't meet...

Are they fine now???Stii busy with study and work???

Whatever...Hope they are fine...

Now already is evening...

The network still is no network...Haiz...

I want to download movie also difficult...

Hope will better at night...